{"id":29078,"date":"2024-12-24T08:44:13","date_gmt":"2024-12-24T08:44:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/2024\/12\/24\/after-a-breakup-can-you-ever-be-happy-living-alone-i-moved-countries-to-find-out-carolin-wurfel\/"},"modified":"2024-12-24T08:44:13","modified_gmt":"2024-12-24T08:44:13","slug":"after-a-breakup-can-you-ever-be-happy-living-alone-i-moved-countries-to-find-out-carolin-wurfel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/2024\/12\/24\/after-a-breakup-can-you-ever-be-happy-living-alone-i-moved-countries-to-find-out-carolin-wurfel\/","title":{"rendered":"After a breakup, can you ever be happy living alone? I moved countries to find out | Carolin W\u00fcrfel"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I left Berlin for a flat overlooking the Bosphorus \u2013 and after a decade with a partner, found even Christmas could be joyful<\/p>\n<p>Recently I found this note in my 2021 diary: \u201cMoved into this apartment five days ago, waiting for loneliness to catch up, but it hasn\u2019t come.\u201d I had written it in September of that year. I had just moved from Berlin to Istanbul, alone. It was meant to be a three-month stay \u2013 the plan was to return to Berlin by Christmas. But I didn\u2019t return. It has now been more than three years and<strong> <\/strong>I\u2019ve never felt more alive.<\/p>\n<p>Before the move abroad, I\u2019d lived with my partner for more than a decade. I was well acquainted with sharing life and space. Being truly alone within four walls was as new to me as my neighbourhood on the Bosphorus.<\/p>\n<p>Toast with marmalade<\/p>\n<p>Boiled egg<\/p>\n<p>Fennel salad with walnuts<\/p>\n<p>Carolin W\u00fcrfel is a writer, screenwriter and journalist. She is the author of Three Women Dreamed of Socialism<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Do you have an opinion on the issues raised in this article? If you would like to submit a response of up to 300 words by email to be considered for publication in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/letters\">letters<\/a> section, please <a href=\"mailto:mailto:guardian.letters@theguardian.com?body=Please%20include%20your%20name,%20full%20postal%20address%20and%20phone%20number%20underneath%20your%20letter.%20Letters%20are%20usually%20published%20with%20the%20author%E2%80%99s%20name%20and%20city\/town\/village.%20The%20rest%20of%20the%20information%20is%20for%20verification%20only%20and%20to%20contact%20you%20if%20your%20letter%20is%20used.\">click here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/commentisfree\/2024\/dec\/24\/breakup-living-alone-partner-berlin\">Continue reading&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I left Berlin for a flat overlooking the Bosphorus \u2013 and after a decade with a partner, found even Christmas could be joyful Recently I found this note in my 2021 diary: \u201cMoved into this apartment five days ago, waiting for loneliness to catch up, but it hasn\u2019t come.\u201d I had written it in September &#8230; <a title=\"After a breakup, can you ever be happy living alone? I moved countries to find out | Carolin W\u00fcrfel\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/2024\/12\/24\/after-a-breakup-can-you-ever-be-happy-living-alone-i-moved-countries-to-find-out-carolin-wurfel\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about After a breakup, can you ever be happy living alone? I moved countries to find out | Carolin W\u00fcrfel\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29078","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29078","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29078"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29078\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29078"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29078"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29078"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}