{"id":34225,"date":"2025-02-24T11:26:55","date_gmt":"2025-02-24T11:26:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/2025\/02\/24\/when-my-sister-died-it-wasnt-just-her-own-childhood-memories-that-disappeared-mine-did-too-jason-hazeley\/"},"modified":"2025-02-24T11:26:55","modified_gmt":"2025-02-24T11:26:55","slug":"when-my-sister-died-it-wasnt-just-her-own-childhood-memories-that-disappeared-mine-did-too-jason-hazeley","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/2025\/02\/24\/when-my-sister-died-it-wasnt-just-her-own-childhood-memories-that-disappeared-mine-did-too-jason-hazeley\/","title":{"rendered":"When my sister died, it wasn\u2019t just her own childhood memories that disappeared. Mine did too | Jason Hazeley"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Millie had fantastic recall, unlike mine. Now there are parts of my past \u2013 and myself \u2013 that I\u2019ll never be able to remember<\/p>\n<p>I was midway through Kathryn Mannix\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/books\/2019\/feb\/14\/with-the-end-in-mind-kathryn-mannix-review\">With the End in Mind<\/a> when it happened. It\u2019s a comforting book \u2013 the author is a palliative care consultant \u2013 that describes the basics of a good death: a diminuendo. The mind fades. The breath slows. Inevitably, gently, life stops.<\/p>\n<p>And then I got the call: my sister Millie had died. Her death, at the age of 47, was sudden and unexpected. She was my only sibling \u2013 four years younger than me. I put the book down. I\u2019ll probably never finish it.<\/p>\n<p>Jason Hazeley is a comedy writer who is partly responsible for TV untellectual Philomena Cunk<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Do you have an opinion on the issues raised in this article? If you would like to submit a response of up to 300 words by email to be considered for publication in our<a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/tone\/letters\"> letters<\/a> section, please <a href=\"mailto:guardian.letters@theguardian.com?body=Please%20include%20your%20name,%20full%20postal%20address%20and%20phone%20number%20with%20your%20letter%20below.%20Letters%20are%20usually%20published%20with%20the%20author%27s%20name%20and%20city\/town\/village.%20The%20rest%20of%20the%20information%20is%20for%20verification%20only%20and%20to%20contact%20you%20where%20necessary.\">click here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/commentisfree\/2025\/feb\/24\/sister-died-childhood-memories-disappeared\">Continue reading&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Millie had fantastic recall, unlike mine. Now there are parts of my past \u2013 and myself \u2013 that I\u2019ll never be able to remember I was midway through Kathryn Mannix\u2019s With the End in Mind when it happened. It\u2019s a comforting book \u2013 the author is a palliative care consultant \u2013 that describes the basics &#8230; <a title=\"When my sister died, it wasn\u2019t just her own childhood memories that disappeared. Mine did too | Jason Hazeley\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/2025\/02\/24\/when-my-sister-died-it-wasnt-just-her-own-childhood-memories-that-disappeared-mine-did-too-jason-hazeley\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about When my sister died, it wasn\u2019t just her own childhood memories that disappeared. Mine did too | Jason Hazeley\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34225","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34225","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34225"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34225\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34225"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34225"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34225"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}