{"id":38899,"date":"2025-04-16T12:07:06","date_gmt":"2025-04-16T12:07:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/2025\/04\/16\/how-netflix-turned-a-black-dating-show-loved-by-millions-into-tv-trash-nels-abbey\/"},"modified":"2025-04-16T12:07:06","modified_gmt":"2025-04-16T12:07:06","slug":"how-netflix-turned-a-black-dating-show-loved-by-millions-into-tv-trash-nels-abbey","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/2025\/04\/16\/how-netflix-turned-a-black-dating-show-loved-by-millions-into-tv-trash-nels-abbey\/","title":{"rendered":"How Netflix turned a Black dating show loved by millions into TV trash | Nels Abbey"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pop the Balloon or Find Love is a YouTube sensation \u2013 but in a mainstream form, it\u2019s terrible. Why does this keep happening?<\/p>\n<p>If you threw Blind Date, the opening scenes of Saving Private Ryan and the auction block into a blender, what you\u2019d get is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=VSCIPEc4bS0\">Pop the Balloon or Find Love<\/a>, a weekly hour-long Black dating show on YouTube.<\/p>\n<p>The show was created by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/arletteamuli\/?hl=en\">Arlette Amuli<\/a>, an African American of Congolese origins, and her husband, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/bolia-matundu-a522102a7\">Bolia \u201cBM\u201d Matundu<\/a>, a Black Brit also of Congolese descent (he had a previous life as a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=rG_AdNdPQm0\">UK rapper<\/a> and then as a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?time_continue=16&amp;v=StVmtUGo7Lg\">Ndombolo musician<\/a>). It has become an international sensation in an age where our fried attention spans have us addicted to short videos. The format is minimalist to the point of brilliance: each week, a line of eight or so balloon-clutching love hunters line up to court and be courted by a singleton of the opposite sex they have never met before.<\/p>\n<p>Nels Abbey is an author, broadcaster and the founder of <a href=\"https:\/\/x.com\/UppityHQ\/status\/1712135360531013797\">Uppity: the Intellectual Playground<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Do you have an opinion on the issues raised in this article? 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