{"id":40597,"date":"2025-05-04T13:52:37","date_gmt":"2025-05-04T13:52:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/2025\/05\/04\/do-we-ever-stop-feeling-anxious-angry-or-sad-about-relationships-not-if-my-older-friends-are-any-guide-emma-beddington\/"},"modified":"2025-05-04T13:52:37","modified_gmt":"2025-05-04T13:52:37","slug":"do-we-ever-stop-feeling-anxious-angry-or-sad-about-relationships-not-if-my-older-friends-are-any-guide-emma-beddington","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/2025\/05\/04\/do-we-ever-stop-feeling-anxious-angry-or-sad-about-relationships-not-if-my-older-friends-are-any-guide-emma-beddington\/","title":{"rendered":"Do we ever stop feeling anxious, angry or sad about relationships? Not if my older friends are any guide | Emma Beddington"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The generations are more segregated than ever. Yet we have so much in common<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve always felt a bit pathetic for not having a proper peer group. In dark moments, it feels like a moral failing and an indictment of my social skills. In kinder moments I recognise it\u2019s also partly a product of being sick and sad at university, then successively too pregnant, too preoccupied with babies and too peripatetic to make or maintain ties. In calmer times, I\u2019ve forged slightly more of a social life, but mostly it\u2019s not made up of my gen X peers, but rather people who are occasionally younger, usually significantly older. Now I\u2019m wondering \u2013 am I lucky?<\/p>\n<p>This thought was prompted by an <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/podcasts\/archive\/2025\/04\/how-to-age-up-together\/682611\/\">Atlantic podcast<\/a> discussing the demographic moment we\u2019re living in \u2013 the usual pyramidal population structure is becoming squarer, with similar numbers of older and younger people \u2013 and asking whether we\u2019re making the most of it. The conclusion was we probably aren\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/commentisfree\/2025\/may\/04\/do-we-ever-stop-feeling-anxious-angry-or-sad-about-relationships-not-if-my-older-friends-are-any-guide\">Continue reading&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The generations are more segregated than ever. Yet we have so much in common I\u2019ve always felt a bit pathetic for not having a proper peer group. In dark moments, it feels like a moral failing and an indictment of my social skills. In kinder moments I recognise it\u2019s also partly a product of being &#8230; <a title=\"Do we ever stop feeling anxious, angry or sad about relationships? Not if my older friends are any guide | Emma Beddington\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/2025\/05\/04\/do-we-ever-stop-feeling-anxious-angry-or-sad-about-relationships-not-if-my-older-friends-are-any-guide-emma-beddington\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about Do we ever stop feeling anxious, angry or sad about relationships? Not if my older friends are any guide | Emma Beddington\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40597","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40597","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40597"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40597\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40597"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40597"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/news2shorts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40597"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}